Nov 27, - Why do husbands want their wives to swallow? Never-the-less, the women either said they weren't interested, or it was mutual, . However, she usually has reservations about letting me cum in her . Even those who said it doesn't matter, in their comments, a large portion of them, in one way or another. If you are swallowing, most of the cum is going down your throat. Plus I've been with at least two women who it gave an upset stomach to.