Oct 18, - Jessica Matlin explores what's behind our naked anxiety. You'd think with so much oversharing, taking it off wouldn't be such a big deal. Inside the steamy, tiled locker room, slender, sporty girls were getting into I didn't want anyone to see my chunky thighs or grandma bra (by age 14, I was a solid D). Sep 26, - I'm the fat, funny girl who is often hailed for my confidence and self-esteem. The big girl who has "such a pretty face" and who, despite her weight, manages to snag really great looking .. First Person: My life as a little person.